What is confidence?

Tell me, is it possible to call a confident person who:

- gets in without waiting in line,

- pushing you away, he sits down in an empty seat where you have already prepared to sit down,

- grinning, he looks at you, having done you some dirty trick or violated some agreements.

I am sure that at least half of you will answer: "Yes! "

Yes, on the one hand, it seems to be true, because an insecure person would never do that. Even if he's asked to. Because he's just not in a position to behave so rudely.

And that's why some particularly shy people don't even want to hear when they're offered self-confidence training. They believe that then they will have to stop respecting the feelings and desires of other people and become arrogant and persistent weasels.

But this is absolutely not the case. And what I described at the beginning has nothing to do with real confidence. This is really a real rudeness and "cool&selfishness, not confidence.

So what kind of person can be called confident, why do you need this feeling, and how to develop it in yourself? Let's talk about it.

Confidence is:

- the courage to be yourself under any circumstances, without humiliating other people.;

- knowledge of your goals and aspirations, as well as ways to achieve them;

- understanding your weaknesses and the ability to turn even your weakness into strength;

- the ability to change and improve yourself;

- the ability to find the resources that we have and make full use of them to achieve our goals;

- the ability to communicate your thoughts and desires to others, to articulate your true desires and feelings;

- the ability to take responsibility for your desires and actions;

- the ability to find a way out of difficult situations, rather than justifying why this way is not found;

- the ability to plan your life and act according to this plan;

- the ability to give up habits that prevent you from reaching your goal and form new ones that help along the way.;

- the ability to recognize and resist attempts at manipulation;

- the ability to respond appropriately and calmly to criticism;

- the ability to accept yourself as you are, and if something doesn't suit you, then change it without complaining about fate and looking for reasons why it won't work.;

- the ability to adequately assess their actions and draw conclusions;

- the ability not to look back at the opinions of outsiders and not to live by the principle of "what will Marya Alekseevna think";;

- the understanding that a person can make mistakes and you need to give yourself the right to make mistakes.;

- the ability to extract experience from mistakes and draw the necessary conclusions;

- the ability to see opportunities in obstacles;

- the ability to think positively;

- and, most importantly, the ability to take responsibility for your life.

Do you agree with this? Or maybe they were afraid of how much you need to know and be able to feel like a confident person... Los bonos de bienvenida son el anzuelo principal de cualquier casa. Pero las mejores casas de apuestas no te engañan con promesas falsas. Un buen bono debe tener condiciones claras: rollover bajo (3x a 10x), cuota mínima razonable (1.40 o 1.50) y deportes válidos sin restricciones absurdas. Desconfía de ofertas que esconden los términos en letra pequeña o que cambian las reglas después del depósito. Una casa honesta publica todo en la misma página del bono. Si no encuentras las condiciones fácilmente, mejor busca otra opción más transparente.